New Year’s Resolution: THIS Changes Everything

Reduce the waistline, increase the bank account.  Spend more time with the family, spend less time surfing the web.  Increase time on the treadmill, decrease the cholesterol number.  Physical, financial, social, professional.  We can categorize them, but we just can’t seem to keep them.  More of a “wish list” than a real commitment to change, the New Year’s resolution has become an annual tradition that we are quick to make and then quick to forget.

I want to challenge you to consider what may be the resolution that will help with all the others.  I want you to resolve to read the Bible every day.  I’m convinced that this habit will change your life.  “How can I make such a claim?” you ask.  Because that’s what it did for me.  And if it changed my life, I think it will change yours, too.

Perhaps my personal story will help with the persuading.  As a new bride, my husband and I moved to a new city, joined a new church, and found a new young married class to join.  Two new friends that I made had a profound impact on my life.  Their way of speaking, respect for others and attitudes about life in general seemed both admirable and inspirational.   I pondered, “What makes the difference in their lives? We attend the same church, we’re all married to great guys, and we all love the Lord.”  I realized that both Carol Anne and Donna spent time every single day reading the Bible.  I decided that I would do likewise.

I describe the early days as “have to.”  I have to do this every day.  Daily Bible reading equated with daily flossing, making my bed, and taking my vitamins.  All helpful and necessary, but not necessarily desirable.  But gradually a remarkable change began to occur.  I began to notice that something I had read in the morning had direct application to my life during the day. Bible reading became less of a duty and more of a delight.  I began to read with anticipation and look for ways that the verses I read in the morning would be relevant to my afternoon.

Very subtly and almost imperceptibly, my attitude was transformed from “have to” to “want to.”  Today, twenty-five years later, I have moved on still to a place I describe as “need to.”  I don’t like the woman I am when I try to complete my daily responsibilities without spending time first in the Word of God.  It really and truly changes my responses to others and my response to daily challenges.  I’m confident it will do the same for you.

If you’ve read this far and I have convinced you, let me suggest a few ways to begin:

1.        Choose one of the gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, or John) from the New Testament.  Following the life of Jesus will bring great blessing.  The Gospel of John is often recommended for new Christians.  I love the book of Mark, which I call the “adventure” gospel.

2.       Read the “Proverb of the Day.”  Proverbs has 31 chapters, so there is one for each day of the month.  This book is chocked full of practical advice for daily living.

3.       Choose any book and read it through from beginning to end.  You could alternate between a book in the New Testament and a book in the old.

A couple more words of caution as you proceed.  First of all, don’t get hung up on the number of chapters or verses you read.  Just read every day.  And if you miss a day, extend grace to yourself.  Don’t fall down the slippery slope of legalism.

Won’t you resolve to try something new this year?  Rather than recycling the same old resolutions as before, resolve to try what may be something new. I hope you find, as I did, that the Bible changes everything.

Graphic attribution:  http://dryicons.com/free-graphics/preview/new-year-2011/

Editor’s Note:  This article is also published this month in NWA Metro Woman Magazine. You can see it here:  http://www.themetrowoman.com/

Copyright 2011 Laura Macfarlan

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Bow Down & Worship

“On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him.”                        Matthew 2:11

The culture in the first century was not one where women or children were respected.  The dividing line between Jews and Gentiles was also great.  This scene, then, is all the more remarkable as we see Gentile kings bowing to worship a Jewish baby.  It’s interesting to note that the Jewish religious leaders who were steeped in Old Testament prophecy and could quote the scriptures verbatim missed what the Gentile astronomers got.

The Magi had traveled a long way and for a long time to find the Christ child.  They anticipated the joy that would come as they beheld him.  (See previous post, Anticipating Joy, below).

Note the two verbs at the end of Matthew 2:11:  bowed and worshiped.  These two words are often seen together and always, it seems, in this order.  Can you worship without first bowing down?  Perhaps the act of physically bowing also represents the bowing of our hearts and minds – a humbling of ourselves in preparation for worship.

To bow is to acquiesce, to submit, to surrender, to acknowledge.  It is a deferring of prerogative, choice, position.  Bowing is a choice.  Bowing places us in a position – emotionally, spiritually, and perhaps even physically—to be ready to worship.  It is a yielding, a giving way.  When our hearts, minds, and bodies are yielded, then we are ready to worship.

Bowing denotes a humbling of ourselves.  Only a humble heart can truly worship God.  A spirit of humility is a complete contradiction to a spirit of pride.

In Proverbs 6, we are given a list of the seven things detestable to God.  Topping the list are “haughty eyes” – surely a sign of a prideful heart.  It was pride that led to the first sin (Eve and Adam couldn’t resist the temptation to be “like God”) Pride has also prompted virtually every sin since.

We were created to worship God – to bring Him glory.  (Isaiah 43:7).  Pride renders us unable to bring our God the glory He deserves –to truly worship Him.

Whether my daily personal quiet time to worship God or Sunday morning corporate worship with others, it is imperative to begin by bowing.  This act of humility is a reminder of who God is…and who I am not.

As we look ahead to the new year, perhaps we can accept the challenge to transform our worship by choosing to first bow.  Bow and then worship.

Photo attribution:  http://ntcccorpuschristi.org/worship.html

Copyright 2010 Laura Macfarlan

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Anticipating Joy

After they had heard the king, they went on their way, and the star they had seen when it rose went ahead of them until it stopped over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they were overjoyed.
Matthew 2:9-10

The Magi were undeterred by King Herod. Their single-minded focus was on the star. They were determined and devoted in their resolve to follow.

For me, the Old Testament equivalent that comes to mind is the pillar of cloud by day and pillar of fire by night that guided the Israelites on their journey through the wilderness. The Magi were aliens – what a joy for this Gentile girl to note that God calls all people to follow Him. God led and they followed. Their obedience brought great blessing– a timeless truth that still holds today. Where is God calling me to obedience?

The Magi, I’m sure, traveled both far and uncomfortably. No fast jets or fast food for this excursion. Bouncing along on a camel in the desert is no picnic now or then. But what a reward at the end – they would behold Immanuel, the Christ child, the Messiah.

The end of verse 10 records, “When they saw the star, they were overjoyed.” It’s interesting to note that the stopping of the star signaled the end of their journey, but they had not yet seen the Christ child. It was just seeing that the star had stopped that brought great joy. It is the anticipation of what comes next that brings the joy.

Christmas Eve is a day of anticipation. If you have children in your home, the excitement that is building is almost tangible. No matter what our age, if we are focused on Jesus, our hearts and minds are filled with wonder, eagerness, and expectancy. A heart devoted to following his star will be overjoyed.

To see the star, you have to be looking. The wise men were looking up to see the star. A downward focus on the sand, their sore bodies, or the spitting camel would mean a shift away from a fixation on the star.

If my focus is on the star, it will show. The glory from Him will be reflected and on display with child-like giddiness, laughter, love, and worship.

Lord, I pray today that though my list is long, my heart and my mind would be focused on your star. Fill me with anticipation of worshiping and wondering. Help me to reflect your glory to those in my corner of the Arkansas “desert” today.

Photo attribution:  http://steeljawscribe.com/2008/12/24/wise-men-and-women-still-seek-him-3

Copyright 2010 Laura Macfarlan

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Have Yourself a MARY Little Christmas

The Mary-Martha tension is a continual challenge for most of us. Finding the right balance between the eternal and the tempo­ral is a daily dilemma. Perhaps this angst is never greater than during the holiday season. Our desire to do all the “Martha” cooking, baking, decorating, hosting, serv­ing, giving collides with the heart call to be a Mary, sitting at the feet of Jesus.

Rather than categorizing daily life and activities as either “Mary” or “Martha,” per­haps the real way to have a Mary Christmas is to smear the lines between the two – take our Mary mindset with us to our Martha tasks. Here are a few ideas for making it happen:

1. Be sure your day begins in the Word sitting at the feet of Jesus. Making time with the Lord a priority is key to keeping a “Mary” heart in the midst of our “Martha” demands.

2. Protect the schedule. Over committing ourselves adds unnecessary stress to us and those we love. Go ahead and write “It’s A Wonderful Life” on the calendar or “Wrap Gifts.” You can then kindly decline invita­tions for that night, noting that you have a prior commitment. Watching a favorite holiday movie while eating popcorn and just being together will provide a welcome respite from the “go, go, go” of the season.

3. Make lists. Christmas cards, gifts, food preparation. Pray over the lists. Ask God to provide wisdom in expending the valuable resources of time and money.

4. Make a Christmas notebook. It will be helpful to compare my last year’s list to this year’s list. Did I give my mother-in-law gloves two years in a row? Did a neighbor bring over a plate of goodies last year, so I don’t want to overlook them this year? Use pocket folders for ads, notes, and loose papers to carry along.

5. Simplify. Made from scratch might sound noble, but it also might be a source of pride.

6. Share baking tasks with a friend. It’s easier to bake a triple batch of the same recipe than to bake three different recipes. Enlist the help of two friends and then trade your bounty. You will each be rewarded with a variety of Christmas cookies for your platter. Keep these in the freezer until needed.

7. Transform wrapping time into prayer time. Pray for the gift recipient as you wrap each gift. The stress of getting it all done evaporates and condenses into a sweet time of glorifying God, as we pray for others.

8. Share the love of Christ. A focus on others will capture the essence of the Christmas season. Adopt a family, fill a Christmas shoebox, or take a bag of canned goods to the Manna Center. Blessing others brings the added benefit of blessing the giver.

9. Make an “I already have list.” There’s a reason that Thanksgiving comes just before Christmas. Cultivating and keeping a thankful heart is an effective antidote for materialism and selfishness inherent with the “I want …” mindset in your family.

10. Give it away. Ask each family member to count how many gifts they receive. Then issue a challenge to find that many items to give away. It will make room for the new, while also blessing others.

11. Keep the Christmas music playing. Music transforms the soul, bringing a sweet soaring of the heart to even the most routine of tasks.

12. Accumulate the Christmas cards received in a basket. Pull one out at each meal and pray for the sender. Share a story about the individual or family who sent the card. It will be fun to share memories with your children who might not remember Aunt Pearl or Uncle Rex.

Judy Garland made the lyrics to the song famous in 1943, but the challenge to have a Merry Christmas is much older than that. Here’s wishing you and yours a very MARY Christmas!

Copyright 2010 Laura Macfarlan

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