Set Your Heart, Set Your Mind

Since, then, you have been raised with Christ,
set your hearts on things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God.
Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.

Colossians 3:1-2

Do you know the biggest difference between a thermostat and a thermometer?
A thermostat has the power to change its surroundings.  A thermometer is impotent.  It only reflects the temperature, but can do nothing to change it.

As a woman who desperately wants to live for the Lord in all things, it is vital that I set my heart and set my mind on things above – not on earthly things.  We have to get vertical.  We must ask God to give us His perspective on the people, events, and circumstances that claim our time, deplete our resources, and challenge our attitudes.

Our hearts and minds tell much about us.  That which holds our love and consumes our thought life is what sits on the throne of our life.  Is my heart and mind set on Jesus?

We even use phrases like “she has her heart set on it” or “he has his mind set on it” to communicate resolve, determination, and commitment.  It suggests that the thought will be followed by an action.  The setting of the heart and mind is not passive.

Our feet may be on earth, but our hearts and minds must be set on heaven. Where is God calling you and me to set our hearts and minds on Him?  Have I lapsed into a horizontal look at the people and events in my life?  Would you join with me in asking God to allow you to look at others through His eyes, to give you His love for people in your sphere of influence– to consume your thought life and your heart life today?

Are you ready to be a thermostat?

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On the Field Plays off the Field: The Play of the Week

They go from strength to strength,
till each appears before God in Zion.
Psalm 84:7

If you’re a football fan, you know the thrill and excitement of the “big play” – the one that makes the “Play of the Week” on the evening news, the snapshot that is plastered across the sports page on Sunday, and fuels conversation around the coffee pot on Monday morning.

In life we sometimes are blessed to score a “big play” in our Christian walk.  Those mountain top experiences are exhilarating.  God reveals a great truth, we obey His direction, and experience the thrill of being used in the life of another human being.  Surely, sharing the gospel and then praying with someone to receive Christ is the “winning touchdown play” in the Super Bowl of life.  Maybe your big play is seeing a relationship restored because you followed God (and swallowed your pride) by picking up the phone.  Or you’ve seen your marriage turned around because you obeyed God and decided to “go first” with saying what needed to be said.

Every day does not come with touchdown moments.  And, if they did, they would cease to be special or remarkable.  Big plays are labeled big because they are also rare.  Day to day life is more of a ground game.  One play at a time, moving the ball forward – gaining ground, losing ground – but determined to forge ahead.  When we are faithful to do our job one day (or one play) at a time, we are ready for the big play that often comes when we least expect it.  Victory comes from being faithful in lots and lots of small plays and sometimes one big play. We move forward from “strength to strength,” as the Psalmist wisely said.

Perhaps we need to start viewing the day to day – strength to strength – as the real success stories.  When we lean into His strength and obediently follow where He leads, that is real victory.  Rather than waiting for the “big play” or the “big day,” we can experience victory every day, as we trust Him—one strength, one day, one play at a time.

(Photo Attribution: December 3, 2010 – Photo by Streeter Lecka/Getty Images North America)

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Back to Bethel

There he built an altar, and he called the place El Bethel, because it was there that God revealed himself to him when he was fleeing from his brother.  Genesis 35:7

Bethel was a significant place for Jacob. Up until that first encounter, God had been the God of his grandfather and his father, but perhaps not Jacob’s God.  Bethel would always be the place where Jacob received his own personal revelation.

Fast forward a couple of wives, a quiver full of kids, and a whole bunch of livestock later:  Bethel seems a long time ago.  There is no indication that Jacob made a deliberate decision to leave God behind.  He just got busy with life.  Sound familiar?

Like Jacob, we can look back over our shoulder and remember significant places, times, or events where we, too, had an encounter with God.  Just remembering that mountain-top experience may stir up a longing for a new revelation or a new word from God.  Like Jacob, rather than pushing forward to a new place, what we really might need to do is go back.  “When stuck, go in reverse” may have spiritual, as well as physical application to life.   Where do you and I need to go back?  What truth or revelation is already hidden in our hearts and minds that simply needs re-examined and a fresh re-commitment?

Have you forgotten to pray?  Is the Bible growing dusty?  Have you found sleeping in trumps fellowship with others on Sunday mornings?  Have you forgotten the blessing of really loving others sacrificially?

Are you stuck somewhere you really don’t want to be?  Try going in reverse.  Go back to Bethel.

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One Goal for 2012

“So we make it our goal to please him…”  II Corinthians 5:9

Google the word “goal” and you will be rewarded with 144,000,000 hits.  Amazon yields 41,071 options when “goal” is typed into the search box (at the time of this writing, that is).  Entire seminars, workshops, and classes have been devoted to teaching us how to set and attain goals.  We categorize them (physical, financial, personal, mental, academic, vocational) and we schedule them (daily, weekly, monthly, yearly).  We wear ourselves out trying to keep them.

What if we could set all this planning, categorizing, and scheduling aside and sum it all up in just one goal — one goal that captures every category.  One goal that ensures victory on every list and for every day.  It is possible.  The answer, like that for every question life asks is found in the Bible:  “…we make it our goal to please him…”

God is not just the God of Sunday morning and Wednesday night Bible study.  He is not only the God of the crisis.  He is also the God of day to day life – paying the bills, disciplining the children, honoring my husband, maintaining healthy relationships, and even cleaning out the closet!  Every answer we need is addressed either specifically or in principle in the Word of God.  I’m convinced of it. As we ask Him:

  • Should I buy this?
  • Should I eat this?
  • Should I watch this?

I’m convinced that His Holy Spirit gives us the answer we need.  That answer, when obeyed, will not only honor Him, but bless us abundantly.  Why not join me in making just one goal for 2012?

Lord, I want to make it my chief goal –and indeed my only goal – to please you.  Show me TODAY what will please you—what decision, action, or attitude will bring you glory.  Who do you want me to bless, what do you want to me to give away, how should I spend my waking hours of this day?  Bless me, O God, and make me a blessing to others –all with the chief goal of pleasing you.

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Giving Thanks

“We prevent God from giving us the great spiritual gifts He has in store for us, because we do not give thanks for daily gifts…Only he who gives thanks for little things receives the big things.”                                                                                 Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Life Together

Lord, I am grateful for many daily things –

  • A husband who takes my hand and prays with me and for me before he leaves each day.
  • The daily learning of new things (or re-learning of things long forgotten) with my children.
  • Laughter – the sharp wit of my husband and children and the delight of making them laugh, too.
  • Children that are growing in You – becoming more of who they are and who you created them to be.
  • Tremendous friends – to care for and be cared by.  To serve with, cry with, and pray with.
  • A home – where I can plant, arrange, rest, read, and open the door in welcome.
  • Extended family – who know me best and love me still.
  • Siloam Springs – the buckle on the Bible belt, where the heaviest traffic time is Sunday morning.
  • My Bible.
  • My coffee pot.
  • Facebook – especially now that adult children travel far and wide.

All these daily “small” things are actually big things.  Perhaps it is the thinking and writing them down and praying through them –like dusting a little vase on the shelf that is always there, but so familiar it is overlooked – that lets me remember and renew my gratefulness.  The small things are the big things!

Thank you, God, for this good life – a life of love and learning, a life that I pray is not squandered but daily devoted to bringing more glory to You.

“…Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.”  Ephesians 5:19b-20

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Got Wisdom?

If any of you lacks wisdom,

he should ask God,

who gives generously to all

without finding fault,

and it will be given to him.

James 1:5

Four great things about asking God for wisdom:

1.  He gives generously.

I love those “ly” words!  Adverbs are powerful communicators.  Our great God doesn’t just give—He gives generously.  He is not stingy.  He does not hoard.  He never runs out.

2.  He gives to all.

As a mom of four kids, it’s difficult to simultaneously meet everyone’s needs.  When they were growing up, we instituted “Kid of the Week” in an attempt to give everyone an opportunity to have special privileges like sitting up front and going out to breakfast with Daddy.  In God’s Kingdom, we are all the “Kid of the Week” every day.
3.  He doesn’t find fault.

No condemnation! All those things we promised we would never say to our kids, but have already said maybe a zillion times,

“How many times do we have to go over this?”

“Why did you wait until the last minute to tell me about your science project?”

Yep.  That’s probably condemnation.  None of that from God.

4.  He delivers.

We ask.  He answers.  Then comes the hard part:  doing what He says!

In what decision, relationship, or challenge do you and I need to ask God for wisdom today…and then follow through with the advice He provides?

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Mentoring Webinar

My first webinar was on the topic of Mentoring:

HeartLife 3D:  Women Mentoring Women

My thanks again to Sandra Hardage, My Journey of Faith, for both the invitation and also for facilitating the seminar.

If you missed it, you can watch it here:

http://connectpro19068335.adobeconnect.com/p4k5vgl8o9v/?launcher=false&fcsContent=true&pbMode=normal

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Heart Life 3D: Women Mentoring Women

All of scripture applies to all of us.  That’s a given. But there are also a few key passages where women are specifically targeted.  Ladies, I think we need to sit up straight and take note when we encounter these.  There really will be a test.

Titus 2 is one of those passages.  The book of Titus is a letter written to Titus to provide insight and guidance on getting the church on the island of Crete organized.  Titus 1:12 describes the Cretans as being dishonest, evil, lazy, and gluttonous.  Sound like any other modern day society?

Though written specifically to the women of Crete in the First Century, the inclusion of Titus 2 in Scripture means it also applies to the woman of our world in the Twenty-First Century.

All these thoughts rolled around in my head a few years ago as I realized that I had reached the age where I should be considered a “Titus 2 Woman.” Yikes!

The Titus 2 Woman has always conjured up words like wise, godly, and mature.  Certainly not words that automatically roll of the tongue when I try to describe myself.  This passage, however, makes it clear that older women are to speak into the lives of the younger.  When the word “mentoring” is mentioned in Biblical circles, this is the passage that comes to mind.

As I grappled with fulfilling my Titus 2 mandate, I asked the Lord for guidance on what it actually looks like to mentor a younger woman.  How does mentoring differ from teaching a Bible study?

As always, God was faithful.  He not only helped me to understand what mentoring is, but gave me a practical way for making it happen.  And, knowing how I love alliteration, He even threw that in, as well.

This straightforward, easy to remember method for mentoring does not require the purchase of a book or manual and can easily be remembered by its title:  Heart Life 3D.  The three D’s are:

  • Devotion
  • Disciple
  • Do-Over

To learn more about how these three words can provide a framework for either a mentoring or an accountability relationship, please join me for an on-line webinar on Monday, September 12, 7:00 pm (Central Time).  You can log in from any computer by clicking here at that time:

https://connectpro19068335.adobeconnect.com/myjourneyoffaith/

I would love for you to join me and would especially be blessed if you would prayerfully consider becoming a mentor or a mentee (or both) or perhaps finding a peer and forming an accountability relationship.  We will discuss all this during the webinar.  Hope you can meet me on line!

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The Psalms: David’s Facebook

Facebook. This website has become the communication method of choice for young adults (and not-so-young adults and even non-adults) in the 21st century.  It offers a means to have a personal conversation with a plethora of friends.  Though not young (and certainly not hip), I’ve joined the Facebook community –largely to eavesdrop on my children!

One of the features unique to Facebook is the “Status.”  It permits the writer to update her “profile” by giving her “Status.”  Die-hard Facebookers may update their Status daily or even several times a day.  (My status is updated on a time frame best described as “seasonal.”)

The Facebook Status clues in friends and acquaintances as to the mood, the situation, the challenges, the anxieties, the agenda faced by the Facebooker.  Friends can then respond accordingly by sending messages or posting comments.

The original Facebook status began with the words “Laura is…” (in my case) and then the writer would finish the sentence. An interesting third-person approach that perhaps invited a higher degree of honesty.

Consider these Facebook Status options:

o      “Laura is praising God for His goodness.”

o      “Laura is frustrated with her enemy—the bathroom scale.

o      “Laura is weary of having too-much-to-do and not-enough-time-to-do-it in.”

o      “Laura is so blessed to be a Mom!”

o      “Laura’s envelope is empty and there are still 11 days left in the month.”

o      “Laura is depressed.”

o      “Laura is ecstatic.”

o      “Laura loves her man!”

Perhaps you read these status updates and would respond:

“Laura needs counseling.”

Or maybe you would respond:

‘Laura is a real person — just like me.”

If you are one of the latter, then perhaps you can also relate to another real person — the Psalmist(s).  Dropped like an anchor in the center of the Bible are 150 Psalms penned by an estimated dozen or more authors.  Many of these were written by David.

When I first became a student of the Bible, I did not appreciate the Psalms.  Preferring to chase the exciting history of the Old Testament or follow close on the heels of Jesus in the New, I opted to bypass the Psalms in my reading of Scripture.  Poetry required too much of a “Mary” mindset for this “Martha” gal.  As I have matured, however, I have come to love and embrace the Biblical treasure trove that we call “Psalms.”

The Psalms are primarily poetry and need to be read as such.  But they are packed with prayers and praises.  They offer wisdom, guidance, and encouragement as they eloquently and vividly draw us to God. Like the Facebook Status, there is a Psalm for every human condition, challenge, mood, and mindset.

Try beginning and ending your day with the reading of one Psalm this fall.  Accept this challenge and you will cover the entire book of 150 chapters in only 75 days — if you begin now, you will easily read through the Psalms by Thanksgiving.

If your Facebook Status is “discouraged” when you begin Psalm 5, you’ll be updating it to “filled with joy” when you finish it.  If “needing forgiveness” is the topic of your status, you might identify with David’s Psalm 32–written as a testimony of God’s forgiveness following his sin with Bathsheba.  If you are a mom, try praying Psalm 139 over your children.  If your heart longs to praise the mighty God, but your mind just can’t find the words, try praying aloud passages found in Psalm 136, Psalm 100, or Psalm 23 back to God.  Conviction, frustration, elation, tribulation, confession, jubilation — whatever “tion” describes your status, there is a Psalm for you!

Do keep in mind as you begin your journey that the Psalms are poetry.  Read these one at a time.  Allow the words to marinate in your mind and in your heart.  Read the words in the morning and allow them to simmer in your thoughts throughout the day.  Ask the Holy Spirit to bring to mind what you have read, to quicken your heart to understanding, and your mind to grasp the deeper truth.  Pray that the aroma will continually draw you to Jesus as you go about your day.  You will be blessed as you realize that laundry, driving, gardening, exercising — all the seemingly mindless, gray, boring tasks of your day become vibrant and colorized as they are done with a heart and mind engaged and connected to Him who is able.

The Psalms do not offer a story line to be devoured, but deep truth that must be pondered and digested slowly.  Dish yourself up a daily serving of Psalms this fall.  I’m confident you’ll find it delicious food for your soul—sometimes sweet, occasionally bitter, but always healthy and power packed.

My seasonal Facebook Status for this fall:

“Laura is feasting on the Psalms and invites you to join her.”

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Divine Interruptions

In Acts 3:1-10, Peter and John were headed to the temple when God provided a holy interruption.  This interruption in their path, a lame beggar, wasn’t just seen–he was also heard.  Like those irritating phone calls and letters that annoy us today, this man was asking for money.

How easy it would have been to shrug him off, especially since they were on their way to do something “holy.”  (“Sorry – late for church!  Catch you later!”)  They could have used the avoidance method employed by the priest in the Good Samaritan story: just cross the street or take a different door into the temple.  Anything to avoid eye contact.

Peter and John, however, embraced the interruption as God-ordained.  Their day planners may have said “Prayer Time,” but the Holy Spirit prompted a change in their schedules: “Time to Share the Love of Jesus.”

It’s notable that verse four records that Peter and John “looked straight at him” and also required him to look back at them.  Then (and now) it was (and still is) easy to avert our eyes– to look away from poverty and pain, to pretend it’s someone else’s problem, that “someone else” will do “something.”

Where am I shirking?  Where am I refusing to be interrupted–to follow the detour God offers?

Do I cling to my calendar, unyielding, unwilling to be late or even miss an appointment?

Am I so consumed with self and self-interest that there is little time for the needs of others?

Is there no margin in my life to make responding possible?

Is there pride that needs confessed–do I look at the “cripples” in my path as being in that condition because of their poor choices?

We think of greed as related to money, but in the 21st century, Western world, time is the most valuable resource.  We may give (or throw) money at a problem to appease our conscience, but adopt a greedy attitude with our 24 hours a day.

God, show me how you want my 24 time bucks spent today.  Reveal to me any greediness that needs confessed.  Forgive me for failing to do the small things because I am unable to do the big things.  Open my eyes to expect God-ordained interruptions and to align my human day planner to your divine plan.  Bring on those divine detours and use me to do your will in my world today.

Peter responded to the cripple: “Silver or gold I do not have, but what I have I give you.  In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, walk.”

Then–and now–money was not the answer.

Jesus is the answer to every need.

Copyright 2011 Laura Macfarlan

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