“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed,
for his compassions never fail.
They are new every morning,
great is your faithfulness.”
Lamentations 3:22-23
“New every morning.”
Don’t you love that phrase? It suggests a welcome freshness, a sweet new renewal as each day dawns: God is still with me. He still loves me. He is still for me. I can count on His love and His compassion. He is ever and eternally faithful.
When the world wants to condemn, when people let us down, and when we fail to keep our own resolutions, we may become dejected or fall into despair. But this passage reminds us that no matter how we suffer or what hard thing we walk through, we are not consumed—because we are His.
When everything else in life fails, God is faithful.
When everyone else walks away, God draws near.
Today may find you not feeling loved … or not even feeling lovable or worthy of love. However, circumstances do not dictate your reality. You are loved.
Maybe you have messed up—again. Shame and guilt may threaten to overwhelm. Perhaps you are looking around for compassion, but no one is offering. Time to look up. Compassion is there. It comes from God.
Stop looking around for the world (or your husband, sister, child, friend, co-worker, or neighbor) to deliver what only God can truly provide. His love and His compassion are constant. Unchanging. Eternal.
New every morning.
Like the manna provided for the Israelites in the wilderness, God’s faithfulness and His compassion are delivered fresh every day. Every. Single. Day. You can count on it.
Editor’s Note: If the mention of manna has you hungry for bread, check out this past week’s Martha Monday post over on the Cross My Heart Ministry YouTube channel for an easy and yummy recipe for bread. Fresh bread, start to finish in 20 minutes? Yes, please! And while you’re there, if you haven’t yet done so, please go ahead and subscribe to our ministry channel!This week’s teaching lesson from the Romans Bible study addresses our questions about God’s will: What is God’s will? How can we know His will? Is it the same for everyone? I hope you’ll take a little time today to listen to this week’s lesson and consider God’s will in YOUR life.
You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. Ephesians 4:22-24
Paul makes a clear distinction between:
Old Self: former, corrupted, deceitful
New Self: Like God, true righteousness, holiness
What a contrast! As followers of Christ, there should be a clear distinction between the old way of living and our new life in Christ.
Paul wrote to the Ephesians then (and, by extension, to us now) to stir up our hearts to live in the light of our new position in Christ.
There’s so much truth packed into these few verses! Let’s dissect them together:
You were taught Paul begins by essentially saying “You already know this!” It’s so easy to lose our way, become distracted, or allow the world to push and pull us away from what we know to be true. We must diligently apply what we have learned.
Former way of life Former means past. Done. History. (Can I get an “Amen!”?) Both individually and collectively, we declare, “Praise God! I’m not what I used to be!” The enemy wants to condemn, mock, and heap on shame. But that former way of life is gone. Our new identity is in Christ!
Put off/Put on Living out our identity in Him is a daily choice. Day by day—and sometimes moment by moment—we make an intentional choice to “put off” the old sin nature and “put on” the new. Thankfully, we have the power of the Holy Spirit to help!
Corruption/deceitful desires Self-awareness means I remain conscious of my tendency to sin. The old nature can rise up to distort, deceive, and corrupt. Choosing to “put on” a teachable spirit means I am humble enough to receive wise counsel—to ask God, my spouse, or a trusted friend, “Am I overreacting? Am I looking at this situation correctly? Are my antennae out too far?”
Attitude of your mind Bingo. That’s where it all begins! The daily battle is won or lost in our minds. We think about it before we jump in and do it. What messages are replaying in your head? Is your thought life filled with God’s Word? Do you need to purge the “stinkin’ thinkin’”?
Created to be like God It is God’s will for us to be conformed to the image of His Son. This process of sanctification will never be complete on this earth … it is continual from that moment of second birth until we pass from this life. The transformation brings freedom from sin and death! Are you looking more like your Father each day?
True righteousness and holiness The adjective true suggests there is a false (or perhaps manufactured) righteousness and holiness. The false version is often the product of legalism. It’s exhausting at best (and cannot be sustained) and at it’s worst, leads to pride. True righteousness and holiness can only come from placing our trust in Jesus and yielding to the working of His Spirit in our lives.
Much of this may be familiar to you. Sometimes we don’t need to learn new-to-us truth—we just need to be reminded of what we already know, and be challenged to live it Are you ready to put off the old and put on the new?
This past week, we resumed our Bible study in Romans. I hope the teaching video will be a blessing to you … and if you have not already done so, please visit the Cross My Heart YouTube channel and become a subscriber today!
“But now, by dying to what once bound us,
we have been released from the law
so that
we serve in the new way of the spirit,
and not in the old way of the written code.” Romans 7:6
Trying to keep the law is exhausting — and impossible!
Just ask the older brother in the parable of the prodigal son … or any reformed legalist in your life. (That might be you, in fact!)
Even if we do manage to buckle down and do a decent job of keeping the law on the outside, we most likely become self-righteous prigs (a word I am borrowing from C.S. Lewis, which is defined by the Oxford dictionary as, “a self-righteously moralistic person who behaves as if superior to others”). Maintaining the outward appearance of keeping the law makes us arrogant, prideful, and — let’s just admit it! — insufferable.
But eventually, keeping the law is unsustainable. The pressure leads to self-condemnation and shame and even more hyperactivity as we attempt to compensate for our failure.
Letting go of the pressure to perform brings sweet freedom.
Relinquishing the “have to” frees us to live it in the beautiful place of “want to” and even “delight to” as we serve our Lord.
Keeping the law was never intended to save us. It can only show us our need to be saved. The law underscores our deep need for a Savior. Functioning as a spiritual mirror, the law reveals our flaws … but just as a physical mirror cannot reach out and correct our smudged mascara, neither can the law fix what is broken in our lives. Only Jesus can do that.
And here’s the thing: the Savior that saved us is the Savior who sustains us!
As followers of Christ, we know our salvation is only received through Christ. Why, then, do we think we can live the Christian life on our own? We need His Spirit to besaved and we need His Spirit to live saved!
Are you ready to give up on the pressure of rule keeping? Why not let 2021 be the year you kick legalism out the door for good and begin living like the free-in-Christ woman you are?
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Perhaps there has never been a year when we, individually and collectively, are more happy to see the pages of the calendar turn. Most of us would agree that we’re more than ready to embrace a new year (finally!) and say goodbye to 2020 and all the challenges it brought to our lives.
Yet we know that those hard times can bring blessing. Hardship often reveals the heart, bringing opportunities for God to refine and grow us. While we may never want to live through 2020 again, we know there was some good that came. Before plunging into 2021, I invite you to pause during these early days and look back, take a moment to count the blessings that came during the struggles, and remember the peace of growing closer to our Lord through it.
This week on the Cross My Heart Ministry YouTube channel, you’ll find fun (and free) downloads to help you capture memories of 2020 for the future. You can view it here:
And speaking of the YouTube channel, I polled a few subscribers and members of the ministry board to glean their feedback on the best videos of 2020. I’d love to share those with you below, hoping you will watch and also subscribe to the Cross My Heart channel.
If you are already a subscriber, I’d like to ask the favor of blessing us by sharing the channel either directly with a friend or on your social media. If you are not yet a subscriber, please click the red subscribe button and add your Gmail address – it’s free! Either way, it would be so encouraging if you’d leave a note in the comment section saying either, I shared it! or I subscribed! When the YouTube channel reaches 500 subscribers, we’ll celebrate by choosing one of you to receive a free journal and some other goodies, as well!
Editor’s note: the following posts are in chronological order as they were published in 2020.
#1: The Parables Lesson 4&5: The Lost Sheep, Lost Coin, & Lost Boy (2/24/20)
A friend wrote, “I love hearing your stories from high school and childhood! I knew that girl who never broke the rules! … of course I was the opposite. I was a risk taker like the prodigal. That lesson meant so much to me because God never gave up on me and my Father was always looking for me to return.”
#2: Celebrate the Empty Tomb with Rolled Away Rolls! (3/30/20)
Using frozen bread dough and marshmallows, you can create a lovely visual to teach your children about the resurrection of our Lord. These make a lovely Easter tradition.
#3: Words from the WORD: Who’s Your Aaron? Who’s Your Hur? (4/17/20)
Inspired by Exodus 17:15, Ex. 17:15, one of our board members describes this teaching as, “A great reminder of how we can encourage others and how they can encourage us as we pray and hold each other up!”
#4: Words from the WORD: #HighNoonHighTime to Pray in May (5/1/20)
This video launched our Pray-Every-Day-in-May challenge, as it encouraged us to pray during challenging times. One board member proclaims the Write the WORD bookmark for May (presented in the video) as her all-time favorite.
#5: Psalm 23: The Shepherd Psalm(5/15/20)
This was part of our four-week study in Psalms. We memorize it, quote it, and often hear it at funerals, but we need to study Psalm 23. It has a lot to say about living the Christian life.
#6: Psalms from the Heart Psalm 34: Praising God Even in Fear (5/22/20)
This video highlights what one friend described as, “the upside down logic of scripture. Learning to lose to gain, being last to be first (serve to lead), humbling ourselves to be exalted.”
#7: Decorating With Seasonal Pillows (6/22/20)
Using pillow covers (rather than buying pillows) can save time and money. One board member shared this feedback: “I love it when you encourage saving money and time and still keep the integrity of classy decorating.”
#8: S.P.A.M. It: How To Get Organized One Drawer At A Time!(9/7/20)
Using the acronym S.P.A.M (Sort, Purge, Arrange, Maintain), this video presents a method for de-cluttering and organizing.
#9: S.P.A.M. Your Closet!(9/21/20)
This video is a spin-off of the one above that introduced the S.P.A.M.-It Method – but this time tackling a closet.
#10: Romans Lesson 2 (9/25/20)
Addressing the often-controversial topic of sin and what it entails in Romans 1, the opening analogy for this teaching lecture was the Apollo 13 disaster, “Houston, we have a problem.” And indeed, we all have a sin problem! One of our small-group leaders commented after that the teaching addressed a difficult topic with grace and truth.
#11: Romans Lesson 4(10/16/20)
The introduction uses “Mirror, Mirror on the wall…” from the Disney film, Snow White, to help us see the purpose of the law in our lives. The teaching unpacks “churchy” words like justification, redemption, and atonement/propitiation.
#12: Romans Lesson 7 (11/13/2020)
Includes ten practical ideas for living dead-to-sin. One board member commented, “I loved your Top 10 ways to live, it could be applied to each and every one of us.”
AND LASTLY … a bonus to make it a baker’s dozen! While this one dates all the way back to 2018, one friend chose this as a favorite video and had the following to say about the lessons she gleaned from it: “Obedience is better than sacrifice. God is holy, righteous and compassionate. He is the same and never changing. The boundaries are clear … there is no guessing how we are to live.”
#13: Israel’s Royal History Begins: 1 Samuel Lesson 9 (11/14/2018)
Thank you for your support of Cross My Heart Ministry in 2020. I pray that you will continue to be blessed by the teaching, tips, and free resources we will be sharing with you in 2021!
“I will give them an undivided heart
and put a new spirit in them;
I will remove from them their heart of stone
and give them a heart of flesh.” Ezekiel 11:19
When we turn over control of our lives to God, we receive a new spirit. The Holy Spirit comes to abide in us. We have a new heart, and we become a new person in Christ.
Apart from Jesus, our hearts are hard, resistant, and rebellious. But because of God’s gift, we receive hearts that are softened by His Spirit—pliable, teachable hearts of flesh.
Salvation results when we transfer our trust from ourselves (or anything else) and place our trust in Him. Walking with Christ for sanctification requires the same choice to trust.
It is a daily decision we must settle: Who is in charge?
Our soft hearts can become hardened when we resist His prompting—when we refuse to do the good thing He calls us to, or when we refuse to stop doing what we know He is prompting us to avoid.
When a child of God refuses to heed God’s voice, she experiences a hardening of heart that robs her of peace and joy.
God loves us too much to leave us there. He calls us to repentance. Our refusal finds us weighted down with shame and guilt, trudging through life with a burden we need not carry.
Have you been there? Are you there now?
Why not let this year—this day—be the time you decide enough is enough? Choose to submit to His drawing and calling. Allow Him to soften your heart of stone and restore your heart of flesh. As we yield, He provides. Purpose and meaning return. We are overwhelmed by His joy and peace. Worship flows.
A heart of flesh is not hardened to God, but teachable and receptive … ready to pivot in the direction He leads. Sounds like a great way to live out 2021!
O Lord, give me and those reading today an undivided heart.
We choose this day—and this year—to be ALL IN.
Our desire is to be fully devoted to You always and in all ways.
Remove our hearts of stone. Give us hearts of flesh.
Have you downloaded the January Write the WORD bookmark and S.O.A.P. study pages? If not, it isn’t too late to join women from all over the country as we explore what the Bible says about the word NEW. Click HERE to download your free resources today!
“Sing to him a new song, play skillfully and shout for joy.” Psalm 33:3
As 2020 ends, we all say a resounding, “YES!” Individually and collectively, we are more than ready for something new!
What would it take for 2021 to be new for you? Most likely, you would define that as different from the old, so perhaps a truly new year would be one with:
No more avoiding previously normal, daily activities
No more Zoom meetings
No more missed holiday and birthday celebrations
No more masks
No more “stay-cations” instead of travel
But what if new had little to do with what’s “out there” and everything to do with what’s “in here” – in your heart? What if what we need and crave can’t be manufactured by our choices or circumstances?
The Psalmist writes in Psalm 40:3, “He put a new song in my mouth…” And James confirms in the New Testament, “Every good and perfect gift is from above” (James 1:17a).
If you are ready for a “new song” in 2021, I encourage you to stop looking around and begin looking up … and I invite you to begin by accepting my Write the WORD Challenge! It’s easy (and free). Simply download the Write the WORD bookmark— we also provide free corresponding S.O.A.P. pages, if that’s your preferred method of Bible study! — and then lean into the 3 R’s each day:
Read the WORD
(W)Rite the WORD
Reflect on the WORD
I am absolutely convinced that God’s Word will stir your affections for God Himself, that it will inspire a new song in your heart and mind.
If your praise has grown stale … if your faith has grown weak … if your prayers have become rote and repetitive … I invite you to allow God’s Word to bring a new song. Permit His truth to cultivate renewed excitement, fresh wonder, and a revitalized sense of purpose and direction in 2021. He may even use familiar verses you already know to restore hope to your weary heart!
And just like the Psalmist, may you and I be found responding in worship – singing that song He places in our hearts and shouting for joy to our great God!
Are you ready for a new song in 2021? I am, too! Let’s do it together!
If you are on Facebook, I invite you to accept the invitation to the Write the WORD Challenge on the Cross My Heart Facebook page. Please click HERE to learn more.
As we move into a new year, I would love for you to post your feedback on the verses you are Reading, (W)Riting, and Reflecting upon, during the month of January!
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“You have made known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand.” Psalm 16:11
Though he lived long before Jesus came to earth, David looked forward as through the veil and saw God’s plan and provision. His words – penned hundreds of years before the birth, death, and resurrection of Jesus – articulate the confident faith we can know more fully this side of the Cross.
The path of life we seek, the path every human heart cries out to find, can only be found in Jesus Christ. That path of life, as David beautifully makes clear, leads to joy and eternal pleasure.
David spoke with assurance looking forward, as through a spiritual fog. Though he could not see God’s plan completely, he makes a declaration of truth with knowing, confident faith.
The fog has cleared more for us. We have Scripture. We have historical truth. We know Jesus came. We can look back and connect the dots to see more than David saw. But we also look forward with confident, joyful hope.
Our eternal destiny is secure because of Jesus. Amid the fun and family, the eating and celebrating, the gifting and receiving, don’t allow the Christmas happy to usurp the Christmas JOY. The presents bring a little happy, but only His presence brings abundant JOY. (I can almost see my kids rolling their eyes … maybe the pun is cheesy, but it is oh-so-true!)
In these last few days leading up to celebrating the joyous news that God became man, I encourage you to make some time to ponder and to praise the indescribable truth:
The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us… John 1:14
Give up trying to reach God. God came to us! Let your heart marvel at this truth. Celebrate! Worship! Rest and revel in it! Come into His presence with thanksgiving and praise, and allow Him to fill you with Joy!
Worship and celebrate Jesus: He alone is our life and joy!
Merry Christmas from all of us here at to all of you!
Have you seen Friday’s YouTube video? I hope you’ll take a moment to watch as I share thoughts on Matthew 28:8, a verse about two women who were afraid, yet filled with joy:
“And on that day they offered great sacrifices,
rejoicing because God had given them great joy.
The women and children also rejoiced.
The sound of rejoicing in Jerusalem could be heard far away.” Nehemiah 12:43
Nehemiah wrote, “…God had given them great joy.” Joy then (and joy now) can only come from God.
Joy, like every good gift, comes down from God above. And when we recognize it as coming from Him, our response when we receive joy is to give it back. The gift of joy (then and now) prompts joyful worship.
The passage also teaches us that joy from God prompts not only worship, but sacrifice. By its very definition, sacrifice is just that: a sacrifice. It should cost us something. And the more valuable our offering, the greater the sacrifice and, perhaps, the more profound the worship.
When we think of giving something to God, our minds automatically think of money. But for those of us living a life of blessing in the western world, time may be a greater sacrifice than writing a check. Our sacrifice may be our time, our talent, our treasure, or a combination of all these. The bottom line is that the more we overflow with joy, the greater our longing to give back worship and sacrifice.
In fact, sometimes the worship itself is the sacrifice. When we choose to worship God from a place of difficulty, challenge, or hardship, our praise is a choice and a commitment. It may even be offered up with tears. The Psalmist calls this a “sacrifice of praise.”
When our son Luke was young, he and his best buddy Karl had a little game they played called, “The Useless Item of the Week.” When they would visit each other, they would bring a gift of something deemed useless: an old billiard ball, a lone card to an unknown game, a piece of electrical wire, and a foreign coin (to name a few.) Luke kept his “gifts” in an old Boy Scout popcorn can (appropriate for our Eagle Scout!) and enjoyed a good laugh with the addition of each new item received from Karl.
Are our offerings to God only those things that are useless or unwanted? Do we worship God when its convenient or when we feel like it?
Would you consider – especially during a season of pandemic and unprecedented challenges on many levels – that joy still flows? That God is still on His throne and still providing? That we have hope because, “The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us…” (John 1:14).
May the reality that God became man and came to us bring you great joy, no matter what your circumstances. And may that truth prompt a response of worship and sacrifice.
May your Christmas be joyous, worshipful, and sacrificial!
While we’re taking a break from the weekly Romans study, I hope you’ll enjoy last Friday’s video as I share about anticipating JOY!
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“Restore to me the joy of your salvation
and grant me a willing spirit to sustain me.” Psalm 51:12
King David prayed the words above following his great sin with Bathsheba. I always assumed David lost his joy because he sinned, but I now believe it is equally true that he sinned because he lost his joy.
Maintaining our relationship with Christ keeps us experiencing joy (a fruit of the spirit). But it is also vital for keeping us safe and protected from sin. When sin reigns, there is no joy.
Salvation brings the indwelling of the Holy Spirit which, in turn, produces fruit: love, JOY, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. (Galatians 5:22-23)
We sustain that joy by abiding in Christ: placing ourselves in His presence, reading His Word, regularly spending time in prayer. You most likely could add other spiritual disciplines to the list.
The life of an abiding believer is characterized by a daily time set aside to be with Jesus. You may call it your devotion (time devoted to Jesus) or your quiet time (time to silence the distractions of the day and focus on Him). Whatever we call it, making this time holy — deliberately setting it aside each day — is key to sustaining our walk with Christ.
Every relationship requires an investment of time to grow. Our relationship with Christ is no different. Joy comes with salvation, but it is sustained by devotion.
And yet, we are human. We become distracted. We read the words while our minds think ahead to the tasks of the day. Our commitment wavers. We skip a day. Then another. We are out of fellowship and vulnerable to sin.
It happened to King David. It can certainly happen to us!
When we wander far and yield to temptation, David’s prayer can become ours: “Restore to me the joy of your salvation…” Easy words to pray. Powerful words when prayed sincerely, because repentance brings the restoration of joy.
But the prayer is a two-parter. David also prayed, “…and grant me a willing spirit to sustain me.” You and I can also ask God to transform our hearts and minds — to give us the “want-to” (what David called, “a willing spirit”).
Sustaining our joy is all about maintaining the relationship. And perhaps sustaining is most challenging — and never more needed — than when life is exceedingly full or particularly hard. Like during the holidays. Like living in a pandemic. Like when life is lonely or sad or desperate.
Whatever your status in relationships, finances, or health … whatever the balance in your checking account (or the total of your unpaid bills) … whether your calendar is filled and overflowing or all white space … the real question is: what is your joy status? Are you abiding in Christ? Every day? Moment by moment? Are you in a sustain-joy mode or a restore-joy mode?
Whether life is full or not-full-enough, are you abiding in Him? If there is no Jesus, there can be no joy. But if you know Jesus, you know joy!
I pray that your December is filled with joy because you are abiding in Him. May you have the “want-to” — the willing spirit — to sustain your relationship with Jesus. I hope this month’s Write the WORD bookmark might help, and I invite you to download this free tool and begin writing the WORD every day. The focus for December? JOY!
If you missed last week’s Martha Monday video, I hope you’ll take a few minutes to check out my introduction to the monthly ‘Do It’ List — another free resource that you can only find here from Cross My Heart! If you’re like me, you probably find that December is often hectic, which makes it perfect time to jump into the ‘Do It’ List and learn some of my hard-earned strategies for taming chaos at home.
For seven days celebrate the Feast to the LORD your God
at the place the LORD will choose.
For the LORD your God will bless you
in all your harvest and
in all the work of your hands, and
your joy will be complete.
Deuteronomy 16:15
The fruit of our labor – whether we harvest literally or figurately – is a result of God’s blessing and provision. The farmer’s toil is rewarded with a literal harvest, while the tradesman celebrates a completed project, and the author a published book. A mother may rejoice that potty training has been successfully navigated, a student delights in the completion of finals week, and homeowners celebrate when the flower beds are weeded and mulched.
Work brings satisfaction. The completion of the work brings joy. The resources to do the job coupled with our personal capacity to lift, walk, labor, think and produce – all are the blessings of the One who gave us life and endowed us with resources.
All we are and all we have are a gift from Him.
As we are wrapping up the Thanksgiving season, we can recall certain words that point to this annual season: harvest, gratitude, thankfulness. And, as we prepare to replace the pumpkins and cornucopias with Christmas trees and holly wreaths, and as orange and yellow give way to red and green, we are poised to usher in a new set of seasonal words: peace, joy, merry, noel.
But as we re-read the verse above – one we might label as a “Thanksgiving” verse because of the harvest theme – we note it concludes with JOY.
We need not relegate JOY to celebrating Christmas only (any more than we need to assign thankfulness only to Thanksgiving). Life is a rhythm … an ebb and flow of seasons, work, and satisfaction that prompt thankfulness and joy, grateful praise to the God who provided all of it!
Let’s make JOY the end result of every season!
The December Write the WORD bookmark was conceived to help us focus on JOY, a word that appears in each daily verse. As you read, write, ponder, and pray God’s WORD this month, it is my fervent hope that you will then be prompted to speak it, tell it, and live it. May your joy be complete!
Editor’s Note: If the mention of manna has you hungry for bread, check out this past week’s Martha Monday post over on the Cross My Heart Ministry YouTube channel for an easy and yummy recipe for bread. Fresh bread, start to finish in 20 minutes? Yes, please! And while you’re there, if you haven’t yet done so, please go ahead and subscribe to our ministry channel!
This week’s teaching lesson from the Romans Bible study addresses our questions about God’s will: What is God’s will? How can we know His will? Is it the same for everyone? I hope you’ll take a little time today to listen to this week’s lesson and consider God’s will in YOUR life.
